Go Ahead Put Yourself First

Marla Gottschalk Empowered Work Requires a Strong Foundation Go Ahead. Put Yourself First. Self-love, my liege, isn't so vile a sin, as self-neglecting. â€" William Shakespeare,Henry V. I was utterly transfixed when I learn Shakespeare’s quote. We so rarely admit that it's good practice to put ourselves (yes indeed, ourselves) first. In our minds we rehearse what we would say â€" and the way we'd behave in a different way â€" to realize this. However, it's a wholesome exercise that we hardly ever put into play. This week I disabled the “Contact” page at The Office Blend. (No worries â€" I still read every comment that my readers share.) Why? Well, the “contacts” had been solely one-sided and self-serving. (Please share our study. Please read our report. Please buy our service.) This dynamic was the polar opposite of why I began blogging â€" to share research, exchange concepts, collaborate and assist others create a stronger work life. So, I felt a necessity to protect my p leasure in doing just that. I determined (a minimum of for the time being) to put myself first and shut things down. Then I mirrored on that very deliberate action â€" as it will probably be questioned. When did it turn into politically incorrect to put “you” first? Individuals who are gloriously happy at work, have realized this is absolutely necessary. Moreover, you cannot anticipate someone else to do that for you. I problem you to make a little room and put “you” (and your profession imperatives) first. Carve out room to focus on elements which may convey more meaning to your work life. This is not about ignoring your obligations. It is simply about recognizing a responsibility to yourself. So. Feed your workplace soul. Eliminate one ineffective or draining factor. Say “no” strategically. Take initiative. Lean in to the elements that bring you pleasure. Enroll in that course you’ve bookmarked. Read the book that’s been calling your name. Have lunch with that insp iring co-worker. Deliberately establish what makes the distinction. Protect that fiercely. It’s alright to place you first generally. Go forward. _______________________________________________________ Read extra on the topic: Happiness Habits That Will Make You Thrive at Work, by Jennifer Moss. Work On Yourself First, by Donna Stonehem, Choose Yourself by James Altucher Dr. Marla Gottschalk is an Industrial/Organizational Psychologist. She is a constitution member of the LinkedIn Influencer Program. Her ideas on work life have appeared in numerous retailers together with Talent Zoo, Forbes, Quartz and The Huffington Post. Post navigation One thought on “Go Ahead. Put Yourself First. ” Good for you Marla! I agree that all of us must carve out that time for ourselves. By being a better version of ourselves, we are more capable of contribute that better version of ourselves to our work, our community and our family and friends. Regards Maree Maree Walker Coordinator Workforce Strategy People & Culture Central Coast Council PO Box 21, Gosford NSW 2250 t: m: e: [Central Coast Council] [twitter] [Think earlier than printing] Like Like Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: You are commenting utilizing your WordPress.com account. (Log Out/ Change) You are commenting utilizing your Google account. (Log Out/ Change) You are commenting using your Twitter account. (Log Out/ Change) You are commenting utilizing your Facebook account. (Log Out/ Change) Connecting to %s Notify me of recent comments via e-mail. Notify me of latest posts by way of e-mail. Subscribe by way of Email Enter your e mail handle to obtain notifications of recent posts by e mail. Subscribe Here Today’s Top Reads Instagram Blog Accolades